Last night during a disagreement my SO basically said I'm a bad example to our son because I have anxiety problems and that I am a loser who has accomplished nothing.
I don't start throwing insults at him when we are disagreeing about something .. but almost every time I disagree with him and won't just back down- he starts throwing insults at me. Then he won't apologize because I A. took it wrong or B. it's my fault he said it because I argued with him or C. it's true
Half of the time the things he says are partial truths. So they sting really bad. I've gotten good at defending myself, but jeez why does he have to cut right to the bone -- and over stupid disagreements?
I'm not gonna stop disagreeing with him, that's life ..
And honestly if he would just apologize to me (honestly or ACTING) for hurting my feelings all would be forgiven! But he won't do it.
Why do you think my SO will not apologize??
Asked by Anonymous at 3:19 PM on Feb. 25, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by TaiM at 3:30 PM on Feb. 25, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 3:53 PM on Feb. 25, 2010
Why do you think my SO will not apologize?? Because he is abusive and controlling.
Answer by beeky at 3:54 PM on Feb. 25, 2010
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