My husband onetime used the word "b^tch" on me, He thought I was gonna leave him, I almost did. But didn't. Well a few months later he said that & added C*nt. it hurts.
Well lately, the name calling in in EVERY arugment, I mean he explodes like a girl on a very hormonal period,. I can point out I'm insecure about something & he's yelling ""you f*cking C*nt you think I'm a pos, a shit headm u r mocking me, F YOU" gets litereally raging...We were texting & aruging & he called me those things because I said "Lol it's funny you're freaking out to do something you already agreed to do, but now that I ask you, you're accusing me of being demanding and controlling"...because of that statement & "lol" he got that somehow he was a POS & every other name. He came back with name callin me & accusations. Its like he's a ticking bomb & I don't know what to do. I'm pregnant & vulnerable, perhaps needy, but still dnt use names or insults
Asked by Anonymous at 11:01 PM on Feb. 25, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by SaraP1989 at 11:02 PM on Feb. 25, 2010
No, that's not nice at all. He shouldn't want to hurt you like that. Me and my husband went through a stage in the beginning and pointed out not so flattering features about each other and some name calling. We can laugh about it now, but honestly, it still hurts and I'm a little self conscious about those features now. I wouldn't put up with it, especially because it seems like he made a habit out of it and now he knows he can get away with it.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:04 PM on Feb. 25, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:09 PM on Feb. 25, 2010
I'm anon :06. I just read your entire question again. You are pregnant and he talks to you like this? Wow, I would NEVER allow that in front of my children. You need to do some soul searching, he sounds like a piece of garbage. Either you all need some counseling or you need to leave. As a child growing up, seeing this stuff happen to my own mother...it affected me in ways that i can't even remotely explain here. I still have issues because of it. That is a form of abuse. Get out before things get worse.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:10 PM on Feb. 25, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 11:14 PM on Feb. 25, 2010
It's funny how when people have no other defense on cafemom, they jump on you for posting anon. LOL, I'm not hiding behind anything. i just don't care to have a stalker.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:23 PM on Feb. 25, 2010
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