I know most of you would be screaming "leave him". I'm past that option & we're in counseling, now expecting a baby. For those of you who have worked thro things like this, please help me out.
His family lives a few states away, in the same city his exwife does. He wants us to move back there now that we're having a baby, who is the first grandchild in the family, the baby is a real big deal. Not so much on my side, as he's grandbaby #11 lol ;) Point is I LOVE his parents, would move if it weren't for that naggging feeling of his ex wife lives there and it happened once already. is this a point where i put my insecurities aside & go for my child & husband? I know baby would be surrounded with love & as mentioned I LOVE his parents. but I can't get past the potential of her living there too he has easy access. He cheated while on vacation when I stayed here to work, Ive dealt with it easier being shes there not here.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:20 AM on Feb. 27, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by glamomomo at 1:25 AM on Feb. 27, 2010
Don't make life changing decisions based on his ex- wife. if you trust him enough now to stay with him and you should not have the thought in the back of your head "what if he does it again" if you want to move then move. she should not be apart of it. and if you have to worry about him doing it again maybe he is not reassuring you enough.
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