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not divorced, another woman

me and my husband talked about a divorce 3 days ago and i found out today that he is already sleeping with another woman while he is on the road, we havent even filed for the divorce yet...he told me that since we want a divorce then he can do as he pleases now... can he do that?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:52 PM on Feb. 28, 2010 in Relationships

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  • i guess he "can".

    Answer by mywonderyears at 2:53 PM on Feb. 28, 2010

  • Of course he can...anybody can do whatever they want whenever they want so long as they are willing to face the consequences of their actions.

    Contrarywise, just because a person CAN do something doesn't mean that they SHOULD.

    Answer by Mrs.Mack. at 3:02 PM on Feb. 28, 2010

  • Like others have said he "can" do anything he wants, that doesnt mean it is right. On the other hand since it sounds like you havent even filed for legal seperation you now have to option of listing the cause of divorce as adultery, Yeah him! All he has done is make it so a judge will look at you in court with a little more favor.

    He really shouldnt have done it but it sounds like he is one of those who believe he can do anything he wants.

    Answer by 3_ring_circus_ at 3:13 PM on Feb. 28, 2010

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