If your husband was completely unmotivated to get off welfare and enjoyed living in poverty with you and the kids just so your family could keep food stamps and medicaid, what would you do? Keep in mind that he's a good man who loves his family and does work hard at his minimum wage job but refuses to discuss you working or him going back to school because he likes getting a link card. I'm gonna pull my hair out because on one hand I love him and he's a good dad to our kids, but on the other hand he doesn't care that we can barely pay bills yet bitches when we have an unexpected expense.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:55 PM on Feb. 28, 2010 in Relationships
Where is your part in all this? PA provides day care assistance so you can work or go to school. Set the example first. Good Luck.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 11:57 PM on Feb. 28, 2010
Answer by BUSYLOVINGHIM at 11:58 PM on Feb. 28, 2010
Refuses to discuss? What's to discuss? Go apply for daycare assistance and get a job or go to school. Better yourself and your family. If he doesn't like it, then he doesn't love you.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 11:58 PM on Feb. 28, 2010
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Answer by crazymom21 at 1:01 AM on Mar. 1, 2010
I could not respect a man who would not consider bettering himself. You can either choose to stay in the lifestyle you are in or you can do something about it. I personally want my children to grow to be self sufficient. Yours are going to think that they do not have to achieve much to be successful.
Answer by FL2AK at 1:46 AM on Mar. 1, 2010
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