I have been married to my husband for just over 4 months. Been together for almost 3. Our 2nd month of marriage, he had an incounter with another woman. He says he was taking advantage of. However, he lies to me alot, he never NEVER communicates with me. I get text messages and voicemail all the time from the other womans friend. Saying they talked last week or whatever. My husband tells and talks to all his friends but when he comes home, I get nothing. We hardly ever talk about anything than our son. I DON'T love my husband. I feel completely left out of my marriage. As if I'm not the one who is suppose to live in this life with him. I have no family or friends to go stay or live with. My family are on the other side of the US. My family is VERY poor. As I am poor to. I am a SAHM with no income. So to get up and move is nearly impossible as well as a divorce. It is my relgious belief that I am in favor of a divorce.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:36 PM on Mar. 1, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by KristaRene at 1:40 PM on Mar. 1, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 1:43 PM on Mar. 1, 2010
well you should go to a community center like community action and get financial help from them. they can help with a place to stay, getting a decent job, and they can also help with legal aid as well. why though, do you want to take your son away from him? Is he a bad daddy?
Answer by KristaRene at 1:45 PM on Mar. 1, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 1:53 PM on Mar. 1, 2010
no absolutely not. if you cannot fix the problems in your marriage you have no choice but to move on. but you do have a child with him and even though you may not have family around you really don't have the right to just take his son away from him because you want to. you chose to have a child with him and a child is a huge responsibility so now, even if your marriage doesn't work out you still have to do what is best for your son. not what's best for you. a child needs their dad. i am in the same situation and i live in a town where i am 1000 miles away from my closest family member and we live in a town with his whole family. i get jealous sometimes and don't think it is fair that my family doesn't get to see my children that often and i think about how much easier it would be if i had their help but the thing is it wouldn't be easier on my kids to not have their dad around. and this is where i chose to have kids
Answer by KristaRene at 1:58 PM on Mar. 1, 2010
i chose to have kids with him, in this town and now i have to live with my decisions and do what's best for the kids.
Answer by KristaRene at 1:59 PM on Mar. 1, 2010
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