I'm breastfeeding. My baby is 6 months old. I have a preschooler and a kindergartner.
I love my husband but I have NO sex drive. NONE! I force myself to have sex every weekend but my poor husband is having withdraws.
I tried you know...self pleasure....to see if that would enhance things....but it doesn't work. Nothing works. Toys...erotica...nothing.
I can't get 'wet' on my own either. We have to use lube every single time. I feel ashamed and worthless. What is wrong with my body?
I have an orgasm when we get going but I have to force myself to even start. I have no interest in foreplay or being touched. I seriously feel like I could go the rest of my life w/o sex and be perfectly fine.
What is wrong with me?
P.S. Please don't think this is a joke. I'm serious. I need help. If you'd rather PM just reply and I will PM you.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:33 PM on Mar. 1, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by bugandsmiles at 4:42 PM on Mar. 1, 2010
Answer by staciandababy at 4:58 PM on Mar. 1, 2010
Answer by Shy_Dia at 5:13 PM on Mar. 1, 2010
Answer by Bearsjen at 5:45 PM on Mar. 1, 2010
I know exactly how you feel! It's gotten a little better for me, but I don't know how. I guess it really is just a hormone thing.
Sometimes I will try to put myself in the mood by watching videos on redtube or reading erotica...doesn't always work, but I give it a shot for the DH. If nothing else, I will "just do it." I usually end up enjoying myself once I try to get into it.
Answer by Anonymous at 7:16 PM on Mar. 1, 2010
Answer by Fistandantalus at 7:30 AM on Mar. 2, 2010
Next question overall
So who will be watching the "Thief" tonight? Aka Jay Leno.