It starts because he gets home super late.. I just want him here more.. I say "I wish you'd been home earlier" - today it was our son's 1st birthday and I really wanted him here and he says as usual that someone has to make money.. then it always comes down to he didn't want a family.
I just want him here more. I say "go to work earlier, come home earlier" (at his job the hours are not set in stone.. he leaves around 9:30 and gets home at 8:30 most nights) he says he doesn't want to.. then elaborates that he doesn't want to be here with us.
He's great with his son for a few -- but he loses interest after like 15 minutes and then starts doing something else and ignoring him.
Anyway, he's making himself miserable and dragging me down with him.
I just want us to be a happy family. He just wants me to be the parent and him to come home after our son goes to bed.
I wish I could leave... but to where???
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