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If there is no trust do you stay married?

If there is no trust in the marriage but you love each other, do you stay married?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:49 PM on Mar. 2, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (10)
  • You do what makes you happy. If you think that you can get it back and be in love then i say stay. If you feel your relationship is too broken to fix i would get out
    mrsjonzy

    Answer by mrsjonzy at 3:50 PM on Mar. 2, 2010

  • Trust is what is broken when dishonesty is present. Being dishonest is not loving someone. If you care for someone, if you "love" someone it's best not to be dishonest, losing thier trust....If it's a constant thing, and you've tried to work on being honest with one another and it isn't working....I don't see how a relationship can survive....
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:54 PM on Mar. 2, 2010

  • whatever floats ur boat. what can u not trust him about. if u know he's out cheating on you, then its up to you.
    fefe87

    Answer by fefe87 at 3:56 PM on Mar. 2, 2010

  • i wouldnt.
    1: if i dont trust him i dont truly love him right? im just hanging on.
    2: if i dont trust him i will be driven mad by all the thoughts of what he could be doing everytime he leaves.
    cassie_m

    Answer by cassie_m at 4:09 PM on Mar. 2, 2010

  • personally i wouldn't. i couldn't live like that and really how much does he really love me if i can't even trust him.
    melody77

    Answer by melody77 at 4:40 PM on Mar. 2, 2010

  • Yes, you can build trust back up over time.
    nsrush83

    Answer by nsrush83 at 5:01 PM on Mar. 2, 2010

  • no
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:40 PM on Mar. 2, 2010

  • if the trust is broken...and there is no chance of fixing it...no. Its just goin to stress and depress you. Move on
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:50 PM on Mar. 2, 2010

  • No
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:35 AM on Mar. 3, 2010

  • If you feel the trust has a chance of being rebulit than yes, make an effort and try, but if there will never be trust again, then you need to leave.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:04 PM on Mar. 4, 2010

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