....or is this totally inappropriate and disrespectful...
in december i take a card out of my mailbox addressed to my husband. it's from a female...i dont care, i figure it's one of his boss' or just a co-worker right?....right.
cut to 2months later. i'm taking another card out of the mailbox, a birthday card this time from the same person, to my husband. i think, hmm... i give him the card. he turns with his back to me to read it, puts it away and goes on with his business.....hmmm.
so, i find the card.....it has cute little hearts all over it and it's signed...."wish i could be there to celebrate it with you, love tina"
this is a lady he worked with when he was out of state.
now our marrige is very rocky and i told him to find a gf, BUT don't hide anything from me.
she's in her 40's so you would think she would have a little more respect than that right?
i'm furious at how disrespectful this is....wouldn't you?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:11 AM on Mar. 3, 2010 in Relationships
yep, you're all right, i invited it....but ONLY if he were honest about it. i guess i just feel like she did this to hurt me or rub it in my face, and THAT is what gets me. apparently she has suceeded.
now if they want to be honest with me, that's a different story.
I'm not judging you, but I am playing devil's advocate. You don't know what her intentions are. You don't know what your dh told her about your relationship and circumstances. I can definitely understand your hurt, but this situation is outside of the norm, so I really do suggest that you sit down and calmly discuss the situation and like I mentioned earlier, lay down some ground rules that you both can live with.
Answer by beeky at 9:51 AM on Mar. 3, 2010
Answer by CorrinaWithrow at 8:20 AM on Mar. 3, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 8:20 AM on Mar. 3, 2010
I don't think you have a right to be upset when he is doing exactly what you told him to do in the first place.
Answer by beeky at 8:51 AM on Mar. 3, 2010
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Answer by samurai_chica at 9:22 AM on Mar. 3, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 9:37 AM on Mar. 3, 2010
Ok, first of all......i'm not jealous...i'm hurt that he is hiding it from me and that she has the balls to send heart cards to my home.
second, you dont think it's disrespectful of her to mail these cute little cards to MY home, where my children live?
He is not hiding it then. Maybe you should lay down some more definitive boundaries.
Answer by beeky at 9:40 AM on Mar. 3, 2010
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