I was just wondering because I've noticed people on here saying they had a u/s, found out the baby had no heartbeat, then were waiting for thir body to abort it naturall, then I've heard people say they chose to not have a D&C. I didn't know there was an option at all. 4 years ago with my first m/c, I found out at the u/s and the Dr. told me that I had to have a D&C that day because a fetus shouldn't stay in any longer after it has passed. If it's true that you have an option, then was he just doing that to milk my Insurance?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:18 PM on Mar. 3, 2010 in Health
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Answer by mommymeg03 at 10:36 PM on Mar. 3, 2010
My friend was on state insurance and had a miscarriage. They made her go home and labor it out on her own. It took several days before it happened. But that's government run health care for you.... keep the costs down, to hell with the patient. BTW it was the most horrific experience of her life, it was every bit as painful as labor and she had to put the baby in a specimen container and drop it off at the hospital for disposal.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:01 PM on Mar. 3, 2010
If you EVER given the CHOICE.....PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take the d&c. I started m/c at 13 weeks and was given the choice to stay or go. I was SO devastated that I left. I was in NO WAY prepared for what was going to happened what I was going to see! The PAIN was excruciating. I ALMOST called 911 because I didnt know it was going to be THAT bad. And JUST as the pain FINALLY eased........there was my baby in the palm of my hand. My perfectly formed baby. omg I just started screaming! I had m/c before at 7 weeks and whet you lose THEN is unrecognizable....I did NOT realize that I would see a baby...small, palm sized tho it was. THAT is something that took my a LOT to get over. After ALL of that 2 days later I got VERY sick and my mom rushed me to the hosp (dh was at work) and I had to have a d&c ANYWAY because everything didnt pass like it was supposed to! I was an emotional wreck for a WHILE!
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