always say Oh it was a scam when the Birth Mother decides to Parent It really frustrates me when I hear thisAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:06 AM on Mar. 5, 2010 in Adoption
Answer by Ati_13 at 9:10 AM on Mar. 5, 2010
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Answer by muptgirl23 at 9:24 AM on Mar. 5, 2010
Thanks muptgirl but the first two answers really,really .Why does a MOTHER realizing she cannot GIVE her child to someone else sound like a scam.If it is due to financial obligations then she would not be GIVEING her child away but someone would be BUYING her child.Don't pre birth match then no worries
Answer by Anonymous at 10:11 AM on Mar. 5, 2010
What muptgirl23 said. OP. I totally agree with you and I'll never understand the wrath that is piled upon women who decide to parent.
A mother deciding to parent after making an adoption plan is definitely NOT a scammer. A Birth Mother is someone who has relinquished her child to adoption, therefore by definition it is not possible for a birth mother to be a scammer.
If there is any scamming it is done by the agency/facilitator. They make all the money while the paps take all the risk. Are there any statistics on how many prospective bmoms decide to parent? Do the agencies warn paps about the financial and emotional risks? Why do they persist in calling pregnant women birth moms, giving the illusion to the paps that her giving her child up is a foregone conclusion?
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