Dh's bio father is a racist prick. When our first son was born he told dh in a letter,
"You stepped outside your race boy. Your d**k is gonna fall off from messing with those jungle n**ger women. That mutt is born on a n**ger holiday. Leave that coon and that abomination NOW." <~~~ That is word for word from his letter. (Our son was born on 6/19... juneteenth.)
His bio dad is in prison, has been for the vast majority of dh's life.
Dh's step dad told him to let it be and for the most part he has. But he recieved a letter that his bio dad is getting out later this year. The letter also stated that he and dh need to talk about this "situation" he has gotten himself into. His dad stated he would help him "fix it" and he would "forgive" him for the huge mistake he has made with his life.
Dh is starting to act wierd. Going to the gun range on weekends and things of that sort.
What do I say to him to help him calm down?
Answer by rahrahsmama at 10:42 AM on Mar. 5, 2010
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