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Dating a married man?

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divamezzo

Asked by divamezzo at 2:23 PM on Jun. 26, 2008 in Relationships

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  • The only word I can come up with is, WRONG. Does that answer the question?
    kfroz0415

    Answer by kfroz0415 at 2:25 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • The only word I can come up for this is WHORE! You don't mess around with someone elses husband AT ALL, and if your one of them that says "well if he was happy at home, he wouldnt be messing with me" kind of girls I got news for ya, he may say it's not working out just to get in them easy little pants but in all reality he is probley just some jerk hound dog that actually does have a good marriage but he cant keep it in his pants. So no dont lower yourself to that kind of thing it is something you do not want to get into.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:35 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • IT IS JUST AMAZING HOW MANY STUPID WOMEN ASK THIS SAME DAMN QUESTION OVER AND OVER AGAIN. IF YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO RAISE CHILDREN YOU SHOULD BE OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW BETTER.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:38 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • Um, no! If he is a creep enough to cheat on his wife, he is a creep enough to break your heart too. Never ever trust a man that would mess around on his wife.
    sapient

    Answer by sapient at 2:43 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • Society calls a woman that screws around with a married man a SLUT,WHORE,HOMEWRECKER. Do you want to be called one of those things because hunny it doesnt matter if your a perfect angel otherwise,when you screw with a married man, you aint nothing but trash!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:48 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • It is a very difficult situation to be in. Putting all the obvious things aside (the above answers) you must also think of yourself. Do you REALLY want to wait for him to have a free moment for YOU. Do you want to have to think about him doing the same things or going to the same places with his wife as he has done with you? You will be sharing, the only diff is you have no rights, and it sucks. You as a person deserve more than to sit around and HOPE he can call you or see you. You feel disappointed when plans are made and he has to break them cause the wife changed her plans unexpectantly and now he can't get away. Just think about it.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:53 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • why would you do that??
    LittleMama520

    Answer by LittleMama520 at 3:16 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • i think it depends on the situation.
    how long they have been split up and are they still together.
    mommy-in-pink

    Answer by mommy-in-pink at 3:33 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • That's just F****D up! what if HE was YOUR husband think of tearing apart a family, a happy life, though I don't believe the man would be innocent either men REALLY NEED to grow up and keep their little thingy in their pants that way tramps couldn't sway them they should be whole heartedly devoted to their wife.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:59 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

  • He's married that means he has a relationship that 1) he's never going to leave or 2) needs to be truly over with before he can jump into another one.

    I've seen an episode of Dr. Phil recently and he told the wife who was the one doing the cheating that she owe it to herself and her marriage to finish it and give it her 100% attention before she moved on. He didn't tell her to stay with her husband, he just said you have to finish and be done with this relationship before you start another.

    For married people being done with the relationship would mean the spouse has died or divorce was final. If you love him you will let him take care of his business and be done with his current relationship, before getting into an relationship wit you.
    SAHMinIL

    Answer by SAHMinIL at 3:59 PM on Jun. 26, 2008

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