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i dont know what to do..

Hello ladies im 13 weeks pregnant..
i wanna tell my family everyone will be so happy for me
it would be the 1st grandchild great-grandchild niece and nephew
but my boyfriend doesnt wanna tell his family
he thinks we should wait until maybe 5 months, just so that he wont have to deal with his side of the family, im suck in a hard shell and when i try telling him, he gets all mad and trys make me feel bad for wonting to tell...
im just venting to you ladies im not sure what to do just doesn't seem fair because he still doing everything he wonts to do.. parties, chill wit the boys, football. and says he trying look for work but has nothing to show for is...IM JUSt REALLY SAD...

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:04 PM on Mar. 5, 2010 in Pregnancy

Answers (7)
  • Screw him I would tell whoever you want it is his problem if he has family issues and you shouldn't be the one to bare those, he is being selfish and rude. What does he think is going to change if he waits another month? That is stupid tell who you want it is you that are pregnant after all.

    Answer by truealaskanmom at 11:09 PM on Mar. 5, 2010

  • You can tell whoever you want, it's your body. And I don't get why telling your family has anything to do with him. If he doesn't want you to tell his fine, that's his issue but you can tell your family whatever the hell you want.

    Answer by LogansMama09 at 11:47 PM on Mar. 5, 2010

  • Oh yeah and if he's doing that crap he's not ready to be a Dad, so i'm just saying be ready for that. That means getting up early every morning with the baby, changing most of the diaper, and dealing with the fact that video games, tv, and friends will always feel like they come before you and the baby, be prepared,

    Answer by LogansMama09 at 11:48 PM on Mar. 5, 2010

  • Tell who ever you want. Tell him to grow up. You being pregnant isnt helping him with that at all. Hes "scared" to tell his family. And he has no job. Good luck with that one.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:12 AM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • i would wait 2 more weeks then tell who ever you want!!!! :)
    isnt 15 weeks the safe zone??

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:09 AM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • once you pass 13 weks it is safe your chances of miscarriage are way down by then PP

    OP tell him to grow up and get over it, go ahead and tell your family honey!

    Answer by Mrs.Owen86 at 4:15 AM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • thanks everyone..i let him him once once again how i was feeling.. and giving him until the 20th.. after that im taken over and doing everything as i please!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:43 AM on Mar. 8, 2010

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