So I have a wonderful marriage to the most perfect man and i'd never want any different.. except... my first 'love' or my little teen drama is still following me around... sort of .. we were like the it couple.. always together and then apart and breaking each others hearts and then making up and .. good stuff.. but even since i was married and in a relationship and had a kid i still talked to him every once in a while before we fought about the past and didn't talk for months.. well its been a couple months .. and i've just been waiting for a word from the ex.. because he swore he'd never talk to me again but that never sticks.. but tonight i gave in.. just asked him a question not trying to have a conversation.. sort of..
what is my issue? I mean i know i like the drama, the attention, i like having that part of my past .. sort of.. i don't know.. is it normal or am i still stuck? I'd never marry him-i'm in it for the chase
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 6:13 AM on Mar. 6, 2010