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If a lesbian hit on you, would you feel uncomfortable or flattered?

Because I flirt outrageously, especially with women I know I can't have. I think it's funny. But I don't want to make someone uncomfortable. I'm never serious about it, well unless you are.
Would you be uncomfortable? And if you were how would you deal with it?

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reecenkaden

Asked by reecenkaden at 2:18 PM on Mar. 6, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • I'm uncomfortable when ANYBODY other than my husband flirts with me, but I would be especially uncomfortable if a lesbian flirted with me.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:21 PM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • I've been flirted with by 2 women before, separate incidents and I felt very uncomfortable both times. They both seemed to be amused by my shocked reaction and laughed. I didn't think it was funny.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:21 PM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • I like it. Its a great self esteem boost! Yay me! so hot even the chicks dig it!
    Christina2135

    Answer by Christina2135 at 2:23 PM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • depends. it always seems like the butchy lesbians hit on me. I'm not into the butchy ones. i'm not a lesbian, but I dont mind if women hit on me, I find it to be a compliment. But I just feel "uncomfortable" if they are butchy lol
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:24 PM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • Only truly uncomfortable if they are pushy...otherwise its flattering!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:27 PM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • Uncomfortable, I'd sock her.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:28 PM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • I'd be flattered. But if she got pushy (and this goes the same for if a guy were to do it) I'd get annoyed pretty quickly.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:35 PM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • I think I'd be flattered, unless it was a butch.....lol
    srhmldndo

    Answer by srhmldndo at 2:38 PM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • well i wear the wedding ring so i would wonder if you wanted people who werent really available. i am flattered by compliments but not really "being hitten on." so i would all depend on your tact, what you said. how hot you are (same with any man who would try me,) you wouldnt get anywhere because i love dh. but i am bi.
    AmaliaD

    Answer by AmaliaD at 2:39 PM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • my dad gets hit on my men all the time... lol... he doesnt look or act gay in anyway! heis super offended. he just walks away saying nothing. he also wears his wedding ring. i think with guys they are much more defensive.
    AmaliaD

    Answer by AmaliaD at 2:41 PM on Mar. 6, 2010

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