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my 4 year old is impossible!!!!!! PLEASE HELP!

my 4 year old son seems like such an impossible child sometimes.
Ill give a little background 1st so i can get my thoughts straight.
Anthony is 4& 1/2 years old. I have 2other small children, a boy thats 1& 1/2 & a little girl thats 4 months old.
anthonys dad went prison when he was 2mnths old, didnt get out til he was almost 2 n 1/2. so he didnt know him. while he was in jail we lived w/anthonys gma (martha) well martha spoiled anthony 2death while we lived there& he became very attached!
when we moved out he started acted up a bit.... but nothin2 uncontrollable. i still let him see his grammy all the time so i didnt think it was seperation anxiety....
well his dad now lives w/martha so anthony sees him quite a bit. but since spending time w/dad he yells, fights w/everyone, hits, and says nasty things to me n his brother! n never wants to b w/me! says he wants2 live w/grammy. he is so so hard on me! what do i do???!

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Asked by mommyof_2boyz at 7:51 PM on Mar. 6, 2010 in Preschoolers (3-4)

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  • he probably likes it there bc of all the personal attn he receives that he lacks from staying with you bc of the other kids, try a day with just anthony or maybe just an hour at the park with just him.

    Answer by angevil53 at 7:58 PM on Mar. 6, 2010

  • thats what i thought too, i bought tickets for us to see disney on ice... just us, no babies. and the babies go to bed early at night so we just sit and draw and spell stuff but during the day he is just a terror. my older sister babysits my kids while i work and she told me today that she doesnt know how much longer she can handle anthony cause he just doesnt wanna listen aND CRYS CONSTANTLY!!

    Answer by mommyof_2boyz at 8:13 PM on Mar. 6, 2010

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