So my SO brother is moving in with us in May so he can go to college.
well we're a young couple, young baby, but we've been on our own for a while, me since I was 16 and him since he was 18.
His brother is 18 and I fear what could possibly happen with someone who has no other responsibility besides school and a part-time job.
I do feel the need to have a contract signed because I dont want any grey areas, KWIM?
I am also putting a lock on the door for security reasons so he would always have to be in at a good time in order to be let in, but luckily im up a lot so he could still have late night fun i guess, but what are some good limits regarding
coming in late
guests..i was thinking none but ppl have friends :)
advice would also help, i want this to be a smooth transition because if it doesnt work out he'll be out.
Thanks in advance
Answer by salexander at 11:44 AM on Mar. 8, 2010
Answer by mrsjosey1018200 at 4:20 AM on Mar. 8, 2010
Answer by sati769leigh at 4:48 AM on Mar. 8, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 5:49 AM on Mar. 8, 2010
Answer by louise2 at 7:08 AM on Mar. 8, 2010
Answer by louise2 at 7:10 AM on Mar. 8, 2010
If he is paying rent, then its not fair to give him a curfew imo...I would go with the contract and be up front at the beginning so he can have time to make other arrangements if he does not agree to your rules..He should be able to have people over occasionally or if he has a steady girlfriend you know she should be able to spend the night sometimes, no random hoes though, lol..
Answer by Anonymous at 8:18 AM on Mar. 8, 2010
Answer by Christina807 at 10:36 AM on Mar. 8, 2010