My dh is in his 3rd semester of nursing school. He is one of only 3 guys in his group. Some of the girls he goes 2 school w/ are pursuing him aggressively. He has to maintain a relationship w/ them b/c they carpool, do group projects, etc. We've never had a problem w/ cheating or jealousy in our relationship of 10 yrs. I don't know how to handle these young girls calling & texting him all the time. There have been two incidents of two different girls asking him for sex. Now I'm realizing that this is just the beginning. Soon he'll graduate and enter a female-dominated field. He tells me that he let's his classmates know he's happily married, and that he turns them down all the time. Sometimes I think I should contact them myself and tell them (nicely, but firmly) "back off my husband!". But I don't want to make school awkward for him or do anything catty. If you're in a similar situation, do you have any advice?Answer Question
Answer by josie_mommyof2 at 9:56 PM on Mar. 8, 2010
Show up to have lunch with him during classes one day and make it perfectly clear you guys are a happily married couple..And yeah I would set them straight answer his phone if he will let you and give them a piece of your mind that they are being disrespectful!
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Answer by anetrnlov at 10:01 PM on Mar. 8, 2010
You just have to try your best to let it go. My dh gets hit on CONSTANTLY at his job and these chicks are shameless, they'll hump his leg right in front of me. One lady looked at a pic of our daughter and said, "What a pity, she looks just like Sabrina and I don't like her. You could do so much better." Ugggg...sluuuuts.......Anyways lol, obviously our men can't just flip out and tell these chicks to F off. As long as it's handled in a mature way, you're just going to have to breathe. It sucks, trust me I know, but there's nothing that can be done about it. It's not like our guys can just file sexual harassment on all of their co-workers lol, they have to just turn them down politely and do their jobs.
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:11 AM on Mar. 9, 2010
No offense but I looked at your family photos and I don't think you have anything to worry about. He's not really an attractive guy - one that pretty women would chase. But what type of conversations is he having with these "girls" if they are asking for sex.....?? I mean, who does that unless the topic comes up somehow.
Answer by Anonymous at 12:12 AM on Mar. 9, 2010