I don't know what to do with my oldest son. He moved back home 6 months ago is unemployed and has no real interest in finding a job or getting an education. He didn't go for any further schooling after high school so and he has no trade. He'll get a job as a laborer or a cook or something , move out, then invariably get fired for being late/missing work then ask to come home. We've let him come home with certain conditions such as going to the local day labor company every morning and this last time we added that he must get schooling for a trade or something. This past week we caught him packing his lunch like he was going to work but then he was going over his friends house and as for picking an education, he keeps getting information on something, then decides he doesn't like it and and looks for something else.
I know that kicking him out seems like the easy answer but I'm not ready to give up yet.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:02 AM on Mar. 9, 2010 in Adult Children (18+)
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 12:06 AM on Mar. 9, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 4:38 AM on Mar. 9, 2010
He'll treat you the way you allow him and it sounds like your not doing him any favors letting him lay around at 22. Why isn't he in the service, you can learn a trade there or at least out looking for any job. If he had to sleep in the cold he'd find a job fast. Don't allow him to do this to you and more importantly to himself........
Answer by zbee at 6:08 AM on Mar. 9, 2010
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