My 10 yr old dd started getting breasts when she was 7. She now is probably a 34a cup size or bigger. She has a LOT of pubic hair & her hips are becoming very noticeable. Last summer i let her get away w/wearing a 2 piece bathing suite that had shorts as bottoms and a halter top for the top. But now its not even summer yet & shes been asking me if she can wear a bikini this year. Um.. HELL NO is what i told her. Well not in those exact words, but i explained to her that her body is changing and she has to keep certain parts of her body covered. She understood but was still mad that i wont let her wear one. Too bad, I'm the mom & i make the rules.
How do you other moms feel about your preteen or even teen daughters wearing bikins?
No bashing please. Your opinions are all that's needed. Thanks.
Asked by Anonymous at 2:27 PM on Mar. 9, 2010 in General Parenting
Answer by mickstinator at 2:30 PM on Mar. 9, 2010
I feel you are going to make her be ashamed of her changing body and that is not right! She should be able to wear a two piece if she wants and if it is age appropriate. You can't lock her up in her room because she is becoming a woman. Young girls need self confidence not learning to be ashamed of their growing body!
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