My husband has had 3 kids and told me before we were married that he was personally done with having kids but if I want more than he was fine with it. I only have one from a previous marriage and we have been married for 2 years now and when we were first married he was all over me and trying to have a baby the excitement the want and now when I bring up trying or tell him that I'm ovulating he rolls over and goes to sleep. He made a comment a while back that we will have a baby when it happens but there is no need to rush it we need to enjoy the two 5 yr old we have enjoy being baby free. I'm ready for another baby want one with him badly. I have been checked out and I'm fine we have been together for 2 yrs and no protection doc said hubby is fine but it's like there is no want to have one I want one now but he just seems like he is ignoring it I just need some opinions on what might be thinking cause he wont tell me?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:33 PM on Mar. 10, 2010 in Trying to Conceive
Men are always no matter how many kids they have, are going to be scared to have more or any at all. I suggest telling him that you will wait or you could tell him that you too do not want any kids with HIM because he might resent you for it. He will probably come around after that or he may not . The thing to focus on here is the fact that you already have some beautiful children. Just put your mind, time and energy on them.
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