Do you think it is OK for "grandma" to continue to help 18 year old financially. For example we told him he now had to get a job pay for his own cell and grandma bought him one and gave him two years of service. We bought him a car but told him to get a job and he has to pay for maint and everything else. Now the car has a problem and grandma is going to fix it. How will he ever learn to be responsible if someone always bails him out. He is in school but doesn't have a job and wont look for one. Thoughts?Answer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 10:02 PM on Mar. 10, 2010
Answer by dillonsma at 10:04 PM on Mar. 10, 2010
Answer by lowencope at 10:08 PM on Mar. 10, 2010
The problem was getting him that car for free. He should have paid for at least 1/2 of it by working. Should have saved money for his insurance and maintenance too boot.
Need to have a conversation to MIL or have your husband talk to her.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:09 PM on Mar. 10, 2010
Answer by RaynDrop at 10:17 PM on Mar. 10, 2010
Answer by rkoloms at 5:49 AM on Mar. 11, 2010
Answer by jewjewbee at 8:10 AM on Mar. 11, 2010
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