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How can I get my husband to take more control?

I love to roleplay during sex and lately have been interested in it being more of a full time thing. And my husband into it but I have to lead him into taking control.

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:19 PM on Mar. 11, 2010 in Relationships

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  • What's wrong with you taking charge? Be the example and set the pace. Find out what his fantasies are.

    Answer by Ewadun at 2:42 PM on Mar. 11, 2010

  • I would start by telling him fantasies where he is in control. Discribe in detail what you want him to do to you. Whisper it into his ear while you are laying next to him. See if that gives him the hint.

    Answer by bjane01 at 3:48 PM on Mar. 11, 2010

  • Have you ever told your man this? Maybe he doesn't know. I don't think there is a way to get a man to do anything he doesn't want to. At least he is open to it when you do something new.

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 4:43 PM on Mar. 11, 2010

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