So my husband and I are a VERY young couple. W have been married for almost 2 years. I'm 19 and he's 19 but going to turn 20 very soon. I just had a baby 6 months ago(it was out first child) and I made sure that I got back to my normal size...I keep up with my appearance and I don't wear those grandma undies (even though i have a few for that time of the month tmi). When i was pregnant my husband started to get the pregnancy symptoms as well he started to have cravings and gained a little weight. I haven't said anything about it until a few weeks ago when we came upon the subject "what would you change about my appearance" I told him that he was being very lazy and getting big. Now he knew he was getting big, but all he use to do was complain when pants didnt fit. So my dh got really upset, and now uses it against me alot when i tell him Im not in the "mood". Im not sure what i shoulld do to improve the situtation.can u help?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:58 PM on Mar. 11, 2010 in Just for Fun
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Answer by SabrinaLC at 5:20 PM on Mar. 11, 2010
Some of you women are jerks! as for your husband, think about it this way... what if he said something about YOUR weight. I know for a fact you would be pist too and feel unattractive because of it. Someday you hard work and good genes won't be enough and you will gain weight no matter what you do... What then? Will it be fair game for you husband to say something about it? Perhaps you should think before you speak. Right now your just being even more selfish, your wanting advice to stop a reaction from your husband that YOU created. Your just going to have to apologize alot and make him feel sexy again... as well as ride this out! you made you bed, know you gonna have to lay in it.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 5:51 PM on Mar. 11, 2010