My husband and I have been through years of fertility treatments and miscarriages and still borns. We have in the last year decided on adoption and are going through parenting classes to adopt through foster care. We have decided on a 9 year old biracial boy who has had a very rough life. My entire family gave me crap about not getting a baby or a young child. My husbands family gave us crap about the fact that he wouldn't be all white. And they haven't been ugly about it or rude, just little comments that really make me angry. How do I nicely tell them to shut the hell up and let us live our lives? I know they won't be ugly to the child but those little comments are starting to really aggravate me!!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:29 AM on Mar. 12, 2010 in Just for Fun
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Answer by NotPanicking at 11:15 AM on Mar. 12, 2010
If you don't nip this in the bud those same comments everyone is making that is bothering you your new child will eventually hear them and they will sadden him and make him feel alienated from the very family that should be welcoming him with open arms.
Right now you're is voice and you should say "look people if yall can't get ya'll act together and celebrate this wonderful time for us then bounce. Make this like an acting class and sell it people sell it. Make me believe, make him believe it hell make total strangers believe it . Win the got damn academy award with this!. If not don't count on seeing me, my husband and our son until ya get ya asses in gear"
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