**Before anyone responds to this.Please read the last post titled:Adoption Dilemma and answers to understand this recent post,Thank you.
Well she sent me an apology saying she was scared and lost faith in how things were going for her to have a child.I understand her side however felt she took the fact of me saying that we must prepare baby may not allow me to deliver there if he comes early and her taking it to a negative place scared me how she really is.I have said this before to her so the fact she jumped all over that made me wonder was she ever listening to begin with.I told them i need to think stuff over but will continue to talk to them and see where i stand but make no promises as i have said from the start but needed to reinstate this to them since i feel they have started to show some true colors and seem to only hear what they want and than guilt me when it bothers them later on over something. So any thoughts ?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:45 PM on Mar. 12, 2010 in Adoption
Answer by Anonymous at 3:54 PM on Mar. 12, 2010
Answer by christyg at 5:39 PM on Mar. 12, 2010
Ok I agree with the posters in your first question about really think about adoption and the long term issue.Having said that if it is still your choice to go through adoption tell these APs good bye.Travel while dilated??? Who chooses to do that.So if the man couldn't make it due to some farm emergency I still would be very hesitant but for both to have that attitude it is wrong!!! I also see red flags with the open adoption, they are able to justify all their actions way too easily.From a strictly compassionate view point having you travel away from home ,give birth,sign adoption papers and send you home sounds cold to me.Have uterus will travel.If they are able to be this dismissive at this point what does it say for the future when they have the baby.If adoption is your route go find parents that are in sync with you.Maybe you are seeing why their other attempts have fallen through.Only commenting on this couple alone.
Answer by drfink at 7:18 PM on Mar. 12, 2010
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Answer by christyg at 10:44 PM on Mar. 12, 2010
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