I've got relatives who have a lot of 'rules'. They don't really tell you what they are, but if you break one you get nasty emails to say the least. anything from what you write on myspace (not about them) to what you bring to their house for dinner.
they say that they think it's best to get things 'out in the open.'
but if you actually try to discuss hurt feelings- forget it.
the main reason why I've even brought stuff up at all was because I wanted to try and avoid future conflict.
You bring it up right away, they can't talk right now, they'll be busy for a few weeks, they keep putting it off.
so you contact them again- no answer again.
then eventually they tell you that they refuse to discuss it because "it was so long ago" or "all in the past"- yet the past just keeps repeating itself!
anyone else run into this and how do you deal with it. Cutting them out entirely is not a option-
Asked by Anonymous at 7:00 PM on Mar. 12, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by JackieGirl007 at 10:38 PM on Mar. 12, 2010
Then I guess since you can't cut them out, your just gonna have to deal or keep doing whatever it is that they say you did wrong. The way I see it no matter what you do its not gonna be could enough... so do whatever the hell you want. fuck em!
Answer by Anonymous at 7:32 PM on Mar. 12, 2010
Answer by louise2 at 7:41 PM on Mar. 12, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:46 PM on Mar. 12, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:49 PM on Mar. 12, 2010