so my husband has been asking to get a motorcycle for quite sometime...and i always said no because i was uncomfortable with it. i fear the crashes and idiots on the road who wont watch for him.anyways...so about 1 month ago i gave in, we found out we were expecting and i thought him getting a mototcycle would make him feel "free" idk its somehting he really wanted. he bought one and my "rule" was for him to wear a helmet...he did at first..and now he doesnt wear one. i tell him to wear it and i dont like it when he doesnt wear it it makes me a nervous wreck when he rides w/out one. i tell him it only takes one wreck and we could lose him. and no our state doesnt require wearing a helmet. he sees everyone else in town who doesnt wear a helmet so he feels its "okay"..help@Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:26 PM on Mar. 12, 2010 in Relationships
You can ask all you want and protest, cry, scream and throw the helmet at him.... and he's not going to. You gave in to him getting a bike so the way he sees it... you will eventually give in to the helmet thing. If he wants to be an idiot let him.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 7:28 PM on Mar. 12, 2010
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Answer by kimberlyinberea at 7:30 PM on Mar. 12, 2010
I know you are hun, but we can have such stubborn husbands.. that the best thing to do is clench our butt checks and hope for the best! lol.
i know what you mean soonmommy..but im scared to death of losing him:(
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 7:33 PM on Mar. 12, 2010
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Answer by kittyhasclaws at 7:56 PM on Mar. 12, 2010
http://www.saferoads.org/motorcycle-helmets Check out this site. It had some interesting facts. I would print these out and leave them around where he might see them. Tape them on the garage door. And if all else fails, you could hold out on him. Let him decide what is more important, you and your family or his dangerous bike ways. Eventually he might get it through his head. It may take a real scare for him to listen. I hope he learns before that happens.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 9:16 PM on Mar. 12, 2010