so my x mil is gonna be passing away and my x called me and said he wanted me and dd to go to the funaral also my x brother in laws and my x sister in law want me and dd to go. me and my x are still good friends and was still close to all my inlaws. trouble is dh dosent want me to go ( i think he fears my x will try something ) which is NOT happening and never would. its a few hours to get there and most likely would spend the night with everyone in the family including dd. so my dh is not helping me work anything out i said he could drive us and go hang out at a pool hall but he said no. what am i supose to do? i dont want to upset dh but there still consided my family and dh knows that. we would all be back first thing in the am. ( arrangments have already been made so when it happens its ready.. given like 2 days tops. ) and my x fil is a sweetman what am i to do?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:53 PM on Mar. 12, 2010 in Relationships
have you given your husband any reasons to doubt your fidelity? because the way he is acting is childish at best and completely none understanding. Also is your DD you x DD too? If not... then I can see were you husband is coming from.
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You need to go. If you don't this will be something that you will regret for a long time. You were and are very close with them. You and your DD need to say goodbye. It is sad that your DH is refusing to support you in this situation, and you need to know the straight truth. What is his problem? If this were another friend or family member, would he have a problem? This is your DD's grandmother and if for no other reason you need to go to her funeral. If he still refuses to go, then you need to find a way on your own. I hope your DH changes his mind. He is being stubborn and jealous at the wrong time. Imagine how your DD will feel later on if she doesn't get this chance? Good luck.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 9:05 PM on Mar. 12, 2010