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baby name war?

my babys dad is in jail and is looking at some time im due in 5 wks and have yet to come up with a name cuz i told him lets compromise but all the names i give he says NO cuz thyr ugly n he dnt lk them but if i say no to one of his im not being fair. but how can i be fair if he changes his " list" evry month? and now that his lil bro is in jail he want to name the bby after him! or his son cuz he misses his nefew! isnt tht dumb? & not to mention tht most of the names he wants are from his ex..i was being nosy and found out on my own cuz he denies it but i have proof.. i have a simple rule i would like him to respect about naming our bby and tht is i dnt want it to be named after anyone as in i dont want to kno some one by tht name. i suggested namin it after him since our first isnt but he says no. its not lk hes gna have kids with any else any time soon cuz hes getting out at 43..wut to do?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:36 PM on Mar. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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  • If he's in jail, why would you want him to have anything to do with your kid?
    SaraP1989

    Answer by SaraP1989 at 9:38 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

  • geez, the guy is a real class act. he's got you wrapped around his finger even from jail! wake up, see it as a blessing and name that baby what you want because you're the one who will be in its life. can't you see he isn't serious? naming after his ex's? that is so disrespectful. don't let that person have a hold on your or your baby.
    mrs_pulley

    Answer by mrs_pulley at 9:50 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

  • what war?...he's in prison..plain and simple...he can't do anything about what you decide to name your child...he'll just have to live with it...so if you want to name the baby after him...then do it...personally i would give the baby a name that i liked...after all...YOU'RE the one that has to raise him...ALONE!
    lindaf2010

    Answer by lindaf2010 at 9:51 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

  • Alladin (nobility of faith) and be done with it you have more problems that name the baby.

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:00 PM on Mar. 12, 2010


  • Sara do you ever have anything nice to say or are you just a real bitter person?

    Geez....

    Name that baby what you want

    rochellecole

    Answer by rochellecole at 10:02 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

  • I would NOT name the baby after his father look how good he turned out
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:02 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

  • WTHeck the baby is all yours as far as i see it hes going to be in jail..pshh forever it seems..name him whatever u want, forget that guy!
    lhernandez7208

    Answer by lhernandez7208 at 10:05 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

  • Why in the hell am I the one you called out? Everyone else said the exact same thing.
    SaraP1989

    Answer by SaraP1989 at 10:08 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

  • name the baby after your side of the family them tell him u went threw all this on your own so far so girl do what u want
    good luck
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:23 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

  • I agree, he isn't going to be able to be there, so I say just name him what you want. your going to be on your own raising and taking care of him, why should his father have a say in the name when he doesn't have any of the responsibility.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:37 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

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