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i have this bad habit on name calling(learned it from hubby)what can i do to stop it?it always ends bad

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:03 PM on Mar. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Think before you speak??? Or everytime you call someone a name take away something from yourself lol Like a cupcake, or whatever you eat.
    armywife2009101

    Answer by armywife2009101 at 11:06 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

  • try thinking before you talk, and im not trying to be a bitch im serious, i had the same problem. and if it slipps out figure out a way to punish yourself or someone to do it for you. like running laps or not eating chocolate or something. it sounds dumb but it worked for me
    leksismommy

    Answer by leksismommy at 11:08 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

  • Honestly, it's just immature and you don't want to be that way, that's why you're asking. Count to ten right before you blow and walk away. It's not cool of your dh either. Both of you need to knock it off and find a better way of fighting. Good luck though. I myself do thoroughly enjoy a good F bomb every once in a while. Sad but true!
    jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 11:16 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

  • u said it, just stop it
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:40 PM on Mar. 12, 2010

  • count to 10 before you speak to anyone at anytime during a fight or disagreement, even a normal conversation...sounds extreme but if you really cant control it thats how you try.
    count to 10 before you say one word, you will be amazed how much more thoughtful you become, and how much less you hurt others.
    Bearsjen

    Answer by Bearsjen at 1:23 AM on Mar. 13, 2010

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