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If a close family member...

repeatedly said hateful things to you for years with no apology and believe they had a right to say it, would you continue to invite them to cookouts and just shrug it off?

Example: You need to get off your ass and get a GD job. This was said after my asked me to stay at home and take care of our baby. This is one example of MANY...

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:08 AM on Mar. 13, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (8)
  • I would not have anything to do with this person.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:23 AM on Mar. 13, 2010

  • i personally would tell this person were to go and how to get there and would not have them over to my house at all. JMO

    eva123

    Answer by eva123 at 8:27 AM on Mar. 13, 2010

  • I'd only invite him if I had to, but there would be something said if they had to be present.
    Shlamoof

    Answer by Shlamoof at 10:07 AM on Mar. 13, 2010

  • Nope.  I will not tolerate disrespect in my own home!

    beeky

    Answer by beeky at 10:17 AM on Mar. 13, 2010

  • Tell them to mind their own business. IMO if someone thinks their opinion must be hurt it opens the floodgates for your own uncensored opinions. Tell them what you really think of their "advice"
    SalemWitchChild

    Answer by SalemWitchChild at 10:33 AM on Mar. 13, 2010

  • heard not hurt. Sorry.
    SalemWitchChild

    Answer by SalemWitchChild at 10:33 AM on Mar. 13, 2010

  • I have people like that in my family and I have completely cut them off. My own grandparents don't even know my phone number, but they seriously had it coming.

    -xoxo-

    Answer by -xoxo- at 10:41 AM on Mar. 13, 2010

  • Just blow the comments off. Try saying something smart to them.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:34 PM on Mar. 13, 2010

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