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Be honest. Do you have a favorite of your children?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:06 PM on Mar. 14, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • I have 3 kids, youngest a teen oldest two in their twenties. Nope don't have a favorite since second one was born. Before i became pregnant with my second baby I fussed and worried how could I love a second baby we wanted to try for. As soon as I became pregnant each time second and third that was taken care of.

    Sometimes some of my kids have done better personality wise than other of my kids but my love is equal.
    lfl

    Answer by lfl at 1:09 PM on Mar. 14, 2010

  • I don't, but I pretty much have a toddler and a preschooler. I think that you will naturally have an affinity for one child, due to their age and how they interact with you at some point in their lives. You relate differently to each of your children. I don't love them more or less, but I love them and their unique traits. I prefer my baby's cuddliness to my preschooler's need for space, for example. But I respect this need of hers, too.
    whiteroses82

    Answer by whiteroses82 at 1:14 PM on Mar. 14, 2010

  • I don't think it's a favorite...but my first born just holds a special place in my heart just because she's what made me become a mom. But I don't treat her any differently than my other 3 beautiful children. they all have special things and characteristics about them that I love! I love all my kids!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:15 PM on Mar. 14, 2010

  • I do but it always changes, so I'm fair about that. lol. They each get thier turn being my favorite.
    Rachel24517

    Answer by Rachel24517 at 1:24 PM on Mar. 14, 2010

  • Yup! My only son!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:24 PM on Mar. 14, 2010

  • Erp... PP here, I should have said, my only child! :) Don't know why I made it anonymous!
    Adelicious

    Answer by Adelicious at 1:25 PM on Mar. 14, 2010

  • No such thing for me, different characters and relationships but all three of them are my favorite!
    older

    Answer by older at 1:42 PM on Mar. 14, 2010

  • LOL, of course not. I love all my wonderful children and all of their unique personalities and talents!
    momov4kids

    Answer by momov4kids at 1:57 PM on Mar. 14, 2010

  • Well yeah, I tend to favor the one that still speaks to me no matter what.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 2:18 PM on Mar. 14, 2010

  •  I have a stronger  connection  with my son than I do with my daughters. I don't love him more, but we understand one another on a deeper level for some reason.

    IhartU

    Answer by IhartU at 2:58 PM on Mar. 14, 2010

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