...about growing up with strangers? As an infant, child, teen, and adult? Did you think since we started out with them so early on in life, we'd adapt and adjust? Did you have low self-esteem, and think we'd never miss you?
I'm asking for your experinces in thinking about 'us' as you made our adoption plans to try and understand my mothers thought process. How could she think I'd NOT have missed her?
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Answer by doodlebopfan at 6:03 PM on Mar. 15, 2010
I was worried he would think he wasn't wanted,thrown away because that is what his father , and all grand parents were doing.I had no choice 33 years ago I was locked away in an agency home.I was told my wanting him was proof I didn't love him in a real way...over and over.So ya I did have such low self esteem by the time he was born I couldn't imagine it would be anything but a relief not to be stuck with such a unwanted low life that didn't really love him as a mother should.
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