I am in a situations where I have two options basically
Option one: Stay in my marriage to the father of my kids, continue to be belittled and treated poorly, while hubby does what he wants while I am left to continue to go through the motions of essentially parenting our kids as a single mom. This is an issue that I have discussed with hubby and it may improve briefly but then we are right back to where we were before. He is short with the kids as well and has made comments that are completely out of line.
Option 2: Leave. Take my kids from the home they have known and totally turn their world upside down. In the hopes that we can have a happier life and maybe some day I can find someone who is willing and able to treat me how I deserve to be treated and who will make time for me and my kids as we are family together.
This really seems like an easy decision, but it is not when you have to worry about your kids.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:00 PM on Mar. 15, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 1:22 PM on Mar. 15, 2010
Answer by lovemybaby283 at 12:01 PM on Mar. 15, 2010
"This really seems like an easy decision, but it is not when you have to worry about your kids." - So true. But is it really beneficial for your kids to be around and basically be taught by the actions of your husband, and you, just taking it, how a relationship is suppose to be? They learn by example. To me the best choice is to up root the kids and leave make sure you get all the legal stuff out of the way. Maybe talk to a lawyer that will give you advice for free. Eventually when you up root the kids they will adjust! It's amazing what kids can do. My mother went through something quite similar and I adjusted just fine. And I learned what IS NOT a good relationship. Good Luck to you. My family will be praying for your family.!!
Answer by MarrsBar211989 at 12:05 PM on Mar. 15, 2010
Answer by gammie at 12:05 PM on Mar. 15, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:40 PM on Mar. 15, 2010