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i am trying to find a way to get my stepsons addresses so their father can write them. he has not seen them since the oldest one was a year old due to a divorce (the oldest is now 34 and the youngest is 33). we know that they live in texas. we are looking for sites that don't cost alot of money due to low income. he has had no contact due to the divorce and extentuating circumstances. my husband is now 56 and not in the best of health. we have three children of our own (two boys and a girl). i am just trying to get some ideas on what to do and how to go about it. thank you

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Asked by highschool2 at 6:05 PM on Mar. 15, 2010 in Adult Children (18+)

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  • try fb and talk to them that way

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:09 PM on Mar. 15, 2010

  • go to adoption questions they know all sorts of research sites.been there done that

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:39 PM on Mar. 15, 2010

  • The gals on the adoption forum have lots of research sites. BUT if you know their names and that they live in a search on MySpace or Facebook. See what you can find on those.

    Answer by twinsplus2more at 7:56 PM on Mar. 15, 2010

  • right to troy dunn - the locator

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 8:20 PM on Mar. 15, 2010

  • Try If you locate one, I am sure he will lead you to the other. Good Luck.

    Answer by PrttyMstng at 9:31 PM on Mar. 15, 2010

  • If their names are the same as when the divorce took place it's possible they will be at If they have a landline listed in their names they should be there.

    Answer by CorrinaWithrow at 11:50 PM on Mar. 15, 2010

  • don't u find it interesting that they have not tried to find him? there is a reason for that. leave them alone

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:11 PM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • i completely disagree with the last answer. Your husband is the adult in this situation and it is up to him to find them. IF they don't want to know him when he does find them, that's up to them, but it's up to him to do the searching. There's a CM group called "adoption search resources" go there for ideas.

    Answer by onethentwins at 7:52 PM on Mar. 16, 2010

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