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i think im bad at relationships. in the beginning of the relationship, im too shy to eat in front of them and i never know what to talk about. when i talk, i dont want every sentence to be a question . . i just want it to be a conversation.

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:08 PM on Mar. 15, 2010 in Relationships

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  • relax practice having a conversation. talk to a guy the way you would a new girl friend..

    Answer by mom2snsb at 11:18 PM on Mar. 15, 2010

  • Being shy makes being in a new relationship hard, that doesn't mean your bad at them. Make your first dates movies or something involving action like tennis or even minature golf so you don't have to be shy about eating and the focus will not be on the two of you. Maybe that way you will find it easier to relax.

    Answer by CorrinaWithrow at 12:04 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • Just be yourself and adopt the attitude that you are who you are, you don't have to impress anyone and if they like you, they like you. If they don't, they don't.

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 12:18 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • lol you sound like me. i am super shy-- social anxiety. plus it took about a year to finally eat in front of my S/O! there's some times where i still cant eat in front of him tho. lol

    just go with it. there might be those awkward silences here and there, but it'll always be like that when you meet someone new. ask about hobbies, past times, vacations, family, etc. and go from there. i'm sure you have a ton of stories to share as well.

    Answer by Shy_Dia at 1:36 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

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