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anyone every have sex even know the dr said not to?

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:15 AM on Mar. 16, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • NO. They tell you not to for a reason.

    There is really no reason to put your baby in danger of premature birth or whatever it is your trying to prevent with pelvic rest.

    I know it's hard not to have sex but honestly...Your baby or Sex? Doesn't sound all that hard when it's put that least not to me.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:25 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • No as much as I enjoy it I would never put my health or babies health in danger just to have sex.

    Answer by Tf1990 at 3:36 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • Nope. I have been on pelvic rest for 17 weeks. It sucks, but the risk IS NOT worth it.

    Answer by Bambi5826 at 3:57 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • the risks are ot worth it. i did, but it could have easily gone badly for my baby. it was a foolish thing i did

    Answer by sati769leigh at 4:30 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • I did not listen to the doctor after I had my kids. As soon as I stop bleeding I had sex. Using rubbers of coarse.  Because the doctor would not give me birth control right away.


    Answer by louise2 at 5:55 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • No they tell you for a reason. If you are going to go to a Dr and pay a Dr why not listen to them?

    Answer by Mrs.Owen86 at 7:41 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • no i havent, i was on bedrest with my second pregnancy from 11 to 34 weeks, it sucked-trust me it did, but i wasnt going to risk the health of me or my baby just to get laid.....

    Answer by MamaSusieQ045 at 8:16 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • for me i was told not to have sex about 3 weeks before I had my daughter because my cervix was ready and my doc was going out of the country to visit his family for the weekend and was scared I was going to deliver over the weekend.i mean it theres a medical reason then i wouldnt have but there wasnt so i did

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:32 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • Yes we did,lol. It seems like when someone tells you NOT to do want to do it even more,lol. Thankfully everything was wasn't a smart move on our part but I didn't feel that it was that much of a risk.

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 9:56 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • Nope there is a reson they told me not too. I would not want to risk for any reason not too. Hubby and I had to go through 2 months of no sex but for us it was more better to not for my health. Then risk it for one night of a few mins of fun. We found other things to make us enjoy each other.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:56 AM on Mar. 16, 2010

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