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family issues

fiance's brother and father told im that they dont think the baby is his because they saw my x's truck in my driveway. i have two kids with my x.

now fiance wants a paternity and says he will support the babies when they come but is denying them til then?

What to do?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:47 PM on Mar. 16, 2010 in Pregnancy

Answers (6)
  • Take the blood test, Nothing you can really do. Maybe you should be more careful in the future to not raise suspicions of cheating then it wont be an issue.

    Mrs.Owen86

    Answer by Mrs.Owen86 at 7:51 PM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • its not like i drive so when he has visitation he has to come get the kids, he never stays just picks up the kids or drops them off and fiances whole family knew this before we moved in together
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:52 PM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • Get the blood test and get rid of the boyfriend. If he has so little trust in you while you are carrying his child, you don't want him in your life. It's not like he didn't know you had an ex. You and your ex will be tied as long as you have children. You don't want this happening again and if you keep the fiance, it will.
    CorrinaWithrow

    Answer by CorrinaWithrow at 7:56 PM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • Break the engagement, and get the blood test. Indeed...you can probably get the paternity determined with an amnio before the baby is born. But DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN. Period.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 8:10 PM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • I'd say screw it, father or not, you don't need a "man" like that with a family like that. Leave his sorry butt.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:59 PM on Mar. 16, 2010

  • Yup, after the baby is born, paternity test and child support. He comes from trash people and you don't want those to be your in laws. Anyone who treats the mother of his children like that is a trash person too.
    ecodani

    Answer by ecodani at 9:09 PM on Mar. 16, 2010

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