My DS has a child from a previous relationship. He's been paying CS since birth however it was amounts agreed upon btw the two of them and not through any official order. The mom keeps causing drama over the amount so he informed her that he was going to file for an official order to formalize the amount that he would pay her. Instead, she went ahead and filed a case. Now to the question! (finally! lol!)
What happens next? Do we wait until we are contacted? Should we try to contact the office? What type of information do they need?
We want to try to handle this as quickly as possible so that (hopefully) everyone is happy. Can they set up a visitation schedule too? We're a little concerned about that. We want to be able to still see his DD, but none of us can afford an attorney right now.
Any help would be great! Thanks!
Asked by Anonymous at 4:34 PM on Mar. 17, 2010 in Money & Work
Answer by aly38914290 at 4:39 PM on Mar. 17, 2010
Answer by ObbyDobbie at 4:43 PM on Mar. 17, 2010
Answer by missanc at 4:43 PM on Mar. 17, 2010
Answer by Tummysmomma at 4:44 PM on Mar. 17, 2010
Do you have records of him paying her? To show that she has been taking this amount for so long. Also to prove he was paying. Wait to be contacted and continue to pay. Keep a record so that she can't say he isn't paying. I don't know about visitation.
Answer by JAIRATRACI at 4:47 PM on Mar. 17, 2010
Answer by babyfat5 at 4:49 PM on Mar. 17, 2010
Answer by ObbyDobbie at 4:51 PM on Mar. 17, 2010
Answer by tropicalmama at 4:58 PM on Mar. 17, 2010
Answer by kimberlyinberea at 5:03 PM on Mar. 17, 2010
Answer by admckenzie at 6:28 PM on Mar. 17, 2010