For example a person is raped but she forgives her rapist because thats what God wants her to do. She should have forgiveness in her heart. Do you really believe she has forgiven that person? Why do some people feel they have to put themselves through such pain?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:43 PM on Mar. 17, 2010 in Religion & Beliefs
I absolutely "try" and always base my decisions on what God would want from me. He wants what is best for me and wants me to be happy. I have been raped and abused in the past and can tell you first hand that not forgiving and not accepting and letting go of the action against me causes a lot more pain than forgiving and moving on. woman who chose to do what the Lord would want from them are not causing themselves more pain but rather finding happiness, love, and fullfilment in the Lord. if you don't believe in God you aren't expected to understand that though.
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Answer by ObbyDobbie at 5:18 PM on Mar. 17, 2010
do you sometimes make a decision because you think its what God would want? NO...I have my own brain and make my own decisions.
Do you know people like this? unfortunately, yes
Instead of looking at different views they only see it "God's way?" This IMO is foolish. First of all, which god? There's 1000s upon 1000s out there. And #2, there is no ONE RIGHT WAY...the "right Way" for me may or may not be the "right way" for you.
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