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need to raise money for my wedding in august

im engaged and were planning our wedding in august and are just short with money with having 5kids and we just want a special day to ourselfs and need a lil help any ideas?

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Asked by angelnina8715 at 9:26 PM on Mar. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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  • yardsale

    Answer by shay1130 at 9:28 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • A justice of the peace and an afternoon at Chuck E Cheese!!!!! Seriously, I remember someone I knew got married by a justice of the peace with ten people in attendance and my friend said it was seven people to many for them still!!!!!! Surround yourself with your loved loved children face your man and tell him how you feel and hear and feel the happiness when it's done -then hit Church E Cheese (remember it's free entry) and you can even reserve a table for yourselves and a get a package with pizzas and fries appetizers (YUM THAT I LOVE) and soda drinks and also a cake included with tokens all a part of it!!!

    This is about your family becoming one -no matter if your kids are yours his and 'ours' you're now becoming more of a family

    laugh love honor laugh laugh laugh MORE!!! Oh Congratulations MOMMY!!!!!

    Answer by lfl at 9:34 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • downsize cars? extra job? avon?

    Answer by hypersquirrel at 9:38 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • no one needs a big wedding. Keep it small.

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 9:39 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • Have a Jack and Jill party (also known as a stag and doe). Its a pre-wedding party meant to raise money for the wedding. You invite all the wedding guests and most of the time they are casino themed so there will be card tables, roulette tables, etc. Have everyone purchase tickets to "bet" and ask friends who own business or performs services to donate something for door prizes, etc. Serve alcohol but have everyone pay for drinks. Most people love these things because they wouldn't spend much more than they would on a night out on the town...they get to have fun with friends plus it benefits the bride and groom. Google it.

    Answer by ANGIE409 at 10:28 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • Answered at 9:35 PM on Mar. 17, 2010 by: Anonymous
    Go to the courthouse and have the family give you a reception. In your next life have the wedding before the brood of kids.


    Get a life and stop being rude. There's no law that says a woman has to be married before having kids. If there is, please enlighten me.

    Answer by Fallaya at 10:33 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • Sell unwanted things on ebay. Good luck!

    Answer by oliviahank at 10:42 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • you might ask your guests and freinds that instead of getting you guys gifts to just give you money instead so u can go on a little honeymoon a few dollars each could get you a couple days in a hotel or something or go camping if your into it then you just have to have gas money and maybe 6 7 dollars a day for a tent site just a thought good luck and congrats

    Answer by 4grlshelp at 1:19 AM on Mar. 18, 2010

  • start saving up and have it when you have the money saved up. you can have a very nice wedding for around 2,000-4,000 dollars. craigslist always has a lot of good ( some brand new) wedding dresses and wedding stuff. make your own flowers. keep the wedding party down to how many you can afford. decide what is most important to you as far as spending money on the wedding( have fake flowers instead of real to save money). cut down on spending on frivolous things like eating out, cable,internet etc that will save you money. goodluck

    Answer by hypersquirrel at 3:57 PM on Mar. 19, 2010

  • also if ask family and friends maybe one them can make cakes , flowers, food etc, they can do that for your wedding,in lieu of gift.

    Answer by hypersquirrel at 3:59 PM on Mar. 19, 2010

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