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SHE IS MAD AT ME ????

I babysit 2 little boys 4 days a week -- Their mom just started dating my cousin. She whips (sp) them as punishment and she also lets my cousin ( not their father) do it too -- I usually use time out, occasionaly I smack hands if really needed --- anyways while I was watching them the oldest (3) bit the little one ( 9 months ) ..and would stop, so I smacked him on the upper leg to get him to stop -- he didnt let go, and so I got my finger in the side of his mouth and basically pried it open -- the teeth marks were left on the baby for hours ! I told the mom what happened when she picked them up and later that night she text me and said that she was mad at me and I had no right to smack him... and then didnt bring them the next day -- but brought them today, but didnt say anything to me...

Would you be mad at me too ?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:42 PM on Mar. 17, 2010 in Just for Fun

Answers (36)
  • Nope. I probably would have done worse if my kid was biting his sibling like that.
    SaraP1989

    Answer by SaraP1989 at 10:44 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • well YES! but seeing she whips her kids alittle smack isn't going to hurt. You need to call DSS on HER!
    r00j04j08

    Answer by r00j04j08 at 10:45 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • no i wouldnt have been mad.
    mywonderyears

    Answer by mywonderyears at 10:46 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • DSS ??
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:47 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • Well, I would have understood, but just because the parentals in these kids lives spank, doesn't give the day care provider an automatic right to so also.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:48 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • well YES! but seeing she whips her kids alittle smack isn't going to hurt. You need to call DSS on HER!



    whipping or spanking a child is not illegal.
    I dont spank my kids but I just had to say that.
    rochellecole

    Answer by rochellecole at 10:49 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • Department of Social Services
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:49 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • child protective service. Sorry that is what it is call in my state. CPS I hear some call it that.
    r00j04j08

    Answer by r00j04j08 at 10:49 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • If the child would NOT let go & was hurting another child you did what you had to do within reason. If she doesnt like then I 'd tell her to find a new child care provider.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:50 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

  • spanking. sounds better when I think of whipping..I think wooo!
    r00j04j08

    Answer by r00j04j08 at 10:50 PM on Mar. 17, 2010

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