What do you do with a hateful father OR selfish man? who cares about himself?

My mom knows were on a steady income. When foodstamps are gone my dad yells and says no I'm not buying that. I'ts allways his farming not his familly.Any ideas ladies what to do on a selfish man? I'm on SSI cant work. And he has not worked going on 3 years almost. Bumms off my SSI and is on unemploment.He rather let his familly starve then pay bills or etc. Farming always comes 1st.

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:34 AM on Mar. 19, 2010 in Relationships

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sorry I'm kinda lost. Can you reexplain? You're upset over your father who you live with, you live with your parents on a farm? Who are you upset with?

Answer by lfl at 8:43 AM on Mar. 19, 2010
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I'm with the PP, your post doesn't make sense. Your dad would rather let your family starve but he spends all the money on FARMING? Isn't he trying to put food on the table? I'm lost.

Answer by ThrivingMom at 8:52 AM on Mar. 19, 2010
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I'm lost too.... are you and adult? Are you asking for revenge ideas?!

Answer by Anonymous at 9:08 AM on Mar. 19, 2010

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Me too. (lost). The government offers help to farmers when there is a bad year etc. I live on my family farm~100 acres. Feed corn/soy beans. I don't get why your h is not making a profit. My grandfather's farm is a self supporting operation most years,some times he even makes a really good profit.
You need to give more information about your h or dad?? And what is happening?

Answer by momthruivf at 9:17 AM on Mar. 19, 2010
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???? please clarify a bit more...... your post is very confusing as to what you are trying to say

Answer by Anonymous at 9:17 AM on Mar. 19, 2010

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Not sure who your talking about your dad or you husband?

Answer by kimigogo at 10:19 AM on Mar. 19, 2010
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Look up the word Narcissist and how to deal with them. You can't change him but maybe you can learn to deal with him.

Answer by admckenzie at 11:20 AM on Mar. 19, 2010
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