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ugh... what can i do to console my friend overseas who just miscarried?

i feel terrible, she asked me Wednesday, "is it normal for a woman to have her period when she is pregnant? i think that i'm bleeding."

she immediately left our chat, and just now, she logged in to tell me she miscarried... i don't even know what to say...

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matobe

Asked by matobe at 12:04 PM on Mar. 19, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • There is nothing that you can say to make it better. All you can really do is be there for her listen to her, maybe send some flowers or a card. Just tell her that you are there for her if she needs you or needs to talk.
    zimmtobe

    Answer by zimmtobe at 1:44 PM on Mar. 19, 2010

  • Tell her how sorry you are for her awful loss. But, do not say anything like "you'll be fine next time". Those comments are not helpful.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:25 PM on Mar. 19, 2010

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