Had a baby almost 5 months ago. I never go out with friends because of distance & because my husbands always gets me on a guilt trip. One time he made me feel like I was abandoning him, he says what about him. He just always makes me feel bad about wanting to go out with my friends or even my nieces who are in their mid 20's and just want to take me out to the movies or even just shopping at the mall. He just gets a lot of attitude with me sometimes he'll ask me if I just want go whore around & cheat on him. I don't know what to do, I get so stressed out & just end up not going anywhere & just cry about it. I've never given him a reason not to trust me. My neice invited me to go see Alice in wonderland w/ her friends I asked him what he thought & he says is that why you want to stop breast feeding so you can go out all the time & said in a bad tone! I don't know what to do. What should I do?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:09 PM on Mar. 19, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by NannyB. at 2:45 PM on Mar. 19, 2010
this situation will only get worse. i've been there and it can get pretty ridiculous. put an end to it now.
Answer by KristaRene at 4:26 PM on Mar. 19, 2010
oh and i totally disagree with nanny. your top priority should be your children not your husband whom is a grown adult.
Answer by Anonymous at 4:28 PM on Mar. 19, 2010
nannyb, that's the stupidest paragraph i've read all week. she shouldn't be expected to take care of his needs. she shouldn't be expected to put her husband and his needs above her baby's or even her's. you're crazy!
Answer by Anonymous at 4:30 PM on Mar. 19, 2010
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