I'm recently 5 months pregnant. My husband is getting very frustrated because our sex life is just going down the drain. This is our third pregnancy. My first, we were going all the time. Second not so much. And this round, well lets say I know he has reason to be upset. He thinks its cuz I'm not sexually attracted to him anymore, which couldn't be farther from the truth. Its just the lack of energy, and also one other thing. My vaginal area feels bruised all the time. I didn't know if it could be std or something ( he strayed once) and I was tested for everything, Dr. said all was normal. I'm not very good at talk about this stuff in person, so I never asked him in particular what this could be. Any insight, I love my husband, and this is putting alot of stress on our marriage. I keep telling him that its not him, its just that it hurts which doesn't make it to appealing for me..Answer Question
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You have two kids at home, and one inside you. You are tired because you have a lot going on. I had problem with pain too. It is because of the pressure being caused by the baby. There is nothing you can. My DH starts off slow and makes sure I am well lubed before he starts. It seems that when he starts off gentle, I don't hurt near as bad. As far as being tired, my DH doesn't get home until 9:30 at night. I try to take cat naps in the day. I will clean and work and take care of the kids, and then I will take a rest and take a 10 - 15 minute nap. I can't do much more than that because I have a 4 year old and a 1 year old at home. I noticed that when I take a couple of naps during the day, I can get a little more energy. Then I start thinking about him and the things I want him to do to me and what I want to do to him and it helps get me ready for when he gets home. Then it's all about us.
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