We are a white couple that has adopted a biracial little girl, she is begining to ask questions about skin color. She is not biologically related and has been told she was adopted. I would like help in helping her to accept her situation as she grows older.
Blatent honesty. Show her you have no prob with it and show her strength in knowing that its ok if she has different skin. If you make signs of indifferance of it being even an issue, she will not have an issue with it either. SHow her pride and love, you didn't see colour when you adopted her, tell her that too. Best wishes!
How about thats how god made you. When she is a bit older you can tell her the nitty gritty about the white mom and (?) dad or whatever. Keep it light. She may not have much of a problem as she gets older. It really depends on where you live and the people who live in that area. If you make it OK(which it is) she will grow up to know it is normal but different.